Sex Gets Real: Talking Sex, Relationships, and Kink with Dawn Serra

**Congrats to Heavy B for winning our one-year anniversary giveaway!!!**

Would you sleep with a virgin? And what does virgin even mean?

After a fabulous dinner, courtesy of Yes Please, More Please on all things aphrodisiac and sexy when it comes to food, Dylan and I discuss one of the topics that dominated the dinner party: virgins.

What is a virgin? What does it even mean, if anything at all? Is it just an oppressive social construct that doesn't actually have any meaning in a sex positive world? Is it something experience sexperts want to deal with?

Dylan certainly is ready to take anyone's V-card. Dawn isn't so sure... though, there might be certain fantasies she has...

What do you think about the label "virgin"? Is it a big deal? Is it penis in vagina sex? Does it require the presence of a hymen in women? Have things changed to the point where virginity is actually an out-dated concept that we should do away with? 

We want to know!

You know we love hearing from you, so here's how to reach us

  • Call or text: 747-444-1840 (standard messaging rates apply)
  • Email: info@sexgetsreal.com
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Direct download: Hit_It_and_Quit_It_-_Virgins.mp3
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ONE YEAR. BEST OF. BOOM.

Make sure you sign up for the Healthy, Authentic Relationship Summit that is on February 12th and 13th. It's free and you get to listen to two days' worth of experts weighing in on all things relationship. Dawn's talk is on Thursday, February 12th at 6pm Eastern. RSVP here.

Second, head to sexgetsreal.com and scroll to the bottom of the page to enter our One Year Anniversary sweepstakes to win a personalized gift from us. The giveaway ends February 7th, 2015, so get thee over there now! 

On to the episode... We had a phenomenal first year with Sex Gets Real. This is a compilation of some of our favorite and most ridiculous  moments - from Dylan's burps and stories about being a total player to Dawn's rants about safe sex and her struggle with cum ropes. You'll laugh. You'll shake your head. And you'll hear just how real we really are. 

Thank you for being a listener. We know we couldn't do any of this without you. MWAH!

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Direct download: Sex_Gets_Real_-_Episode_28.mp3
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Dawn and Dylan are kicking off their one-year anniversary with a KICK-ASS giveaway. Check out the Sex Gets Real Facebook page to enter and for details (US residents only). 

They also went back to Mid Atlantic Leather and all of the naked gay boys with their leather vests and floggers and flagging and BDSM.

It was a smelly good time.

Plus, don't miss Dylan's giggles over the Vagankle. If you're a foot fetishist, you're going to love this find. 

Direct download: Hit_It_and_Quit_It_-_Naked_gay_men_and_leather.mp3
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Dylan talks about being a total sexist at a motorcycle show. A listener wants to know where to go for classes on sex and BDSM. Dawn and Dylan also discuss dildo etiquette, female condoms, how to find your strap-on cock confidence, and Pornhub's new report.  

Be sure to listen to the end for a random and exciting update from Dawn on a sweepstakes that starts next week for our U.S. listeners. The winner scores a free book on sexual fantasies, and it will be signed by Dawn and Dylan!

Direct download: Sex_Gets_Real_-_Episode_27.mp3
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We birthed a sex podcast. Here's how it came to be.

It all started with Dawn being a total stalker at a lesbian club... No seriously, it did.

That's just the beginning.

And then of course, with a few glasses of champagne in her, Dylan goes on a bender about all the action she got as a DJ at the dyke bars way back in the day. Things spiral.

But in the end, it all comes back to us starting the podcast and loving all of you and Sex Gets Real was born. Ta da.

You know we love hearing from you, so here's how to reach us.

Call or text: 747-444-1840 (standard messaging rates apply)

Email: info@sexgetsreal.com

Contact form: Sex Gets Real website (anonymous submissions accepted)

Direct download: Hit_It_and_Quit_It_-_How_We_Met.mp3
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A listener shares a few tidbits on his public sex adventures, a new listener goes back through previous episodes and asks questions about jealousy and ending a relationship that's at the height of NRE, and a couple seeks help on finding a 3rd or playing with another couple.

Plus, a story about arousal pills, questions on precum, and Dawn talks about her latest adventures (it involves fisting and pegging).

You know we love hearing from you, so here's how to reach us.

Call or text: 747-444-1840 (standard messaging rates apply)

Email: info@sexgetsreal.com

Contact form: Sex Gets Real website (anonymous submissions accepted)

Direct download: Sex_Gets_Real_-_Episode_26.mp3
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Dawn and Dylan embark on a scarring adventure into the world of flavored sex novelty items. Condoms and Bijoux natural body paint aside, everything is...horrific.

Scarring.

And, one item literally turns us into old school Oompa Loompas. Find out which it is...that shit lasted 2 days!

You know we love hearing from you, so here's how to reach us.

Call or text: 747-444-1840 (standard messaging rates apply)

Email: info@sexgetsreal.com

Contact form: Sex Gets Real website (anonymous submissions accepted)

Direct download: Hit_It_and_Quit_It_-_Taste_Test.mp3
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We've got a few listener questions and confessions. Dirty perverts. We love it. Plus, a listener wants to know more about demisexuals, so we dig in and explore it.

Plus, TinderNightmares on Instagram and a funny video on Buzzfeed about dudes trying sex toys for the first time.

Then, Dawn & Dylan weigh in on Bill Cosby and Jian Ghomeshi. Down with victim shaming!

You know we love hearing from you, so here's how to reach us.

Call or text: 747-444-1840 (standard messaging rates apply)

Email: info@sexgetsreal.com

Contact form: Sex Gets Real website (anonymous submissions accepted)

Direct download: Sex_Gets_Real_-_Episode_25.mp3
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Hear what happens when Dawn wakes up and reads some bad sex advice. Sacred sexuality and tantra are beautiful practices, but too many gurus try to make their personal journey into advice for others. And Dawn isn't taking it anymore. Watch out - rant ahead!

You know we love hearing from you, so here's how to reach us.

Call or text: 747-444-1840 (standard messaging rates apply)

Email: info@sexgetsreal.com

Contact form: Sex Gets Real website (anonymous submissions accepted)

Direct download: Hit_It_and_Quit_It_-_Dawn_Rants_on_Bad_Advice_about_Sacred_Sexuality.mp3
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Dawn and Dylan interview Frozen Meursault, a BDSM educator and sadist. He fields questions from listeners on everything from why pain or fear are interesting at all to rough body play like punching and rape fantasies. 

He also breaks down the important of consent as the foundation for all play, and gives listeners practical tips for finding ways to incorporate some of the edgier, more risky play into their bedrooms. 

Important links include http://kinkacademy.com, http://kinky.com, http://stefanosandshay.com, and http://frozenmeursault.com.

You know we love hearing from you, so here's how to reach us.

Call or text: 747-444-1840 (standard messaging rates apply)

Email: info@sexgetsreal.com

Contact form: Sex Gets Real website (anonymous submissions accepted)

Direct download: Sex_Gets_Real_-_Episode_24.mp3
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